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Who Gets the Pets in a California Divorce?

In most households pets are considered family. Unfortunately when you divorce in the state of California, pets are not viewed the same as children and getting custody of your furry friend is not black and white.

When it comes to divorce in the state of California, pets are considered property, and “custody” over your pet is typically determined during the division of property proceedings.

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What Determines the State you get Divorced In

A common mistake people make is believing they must divorce in the state in which they were married. This is simply not the case. When it comes to divorce, you typically file for divorce in the state you currently reside. However, if you and your spouse are considering divorce and live in different states, things can get a bit complicated. How do you determine which state you should get divorced in? Almost every state, except Alaska, Washington, and South Dakota have strict residency requirements in order to file for divorce in that state.

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California Self-Employed Divorce Tips

Every divorce comes with its challenges, but if you or your spouse are self-employed the challenges can become more complex. If you currently own your own business and you are getting ready to file for divorce, there are some details you should prepare to discuss with your attorney. Many challenging issues arise in cases like these, so hiring an experienced attorney is crucial to your success. Here are our top tips for divorcing if you’re self-employed.

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James Vercollone
The Best 5 Books to Read If Your Marriage is Struggling

Couples that are working to save their marriage can find any number of resources on how to tackle whatever specific problems they are personally experiencing. In fact, there are so many strategies for a failing marriage that it can be difficult to know where you should start. As San Diego family law experts, we don't specialize in relationship counseling. Thankfully, there are plenty of books available to offer insight, resources, and tactical advice if your marriage is in trouble.

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What to Expect During Your San Diego Divorce Consultation

Divorce brings about a multitude of emotions when confronted with the knowledge that your marriage is ending. It’s perfectly normal for you to be feeling angry, afraid, hurt, anxious, or depressed. Your home life may have become unrecognizable – filled with strife and conflict. The stress could be affecting your health. You’re dealing with a lot. One thing you should not have to worry about is what to expect from a free divorce consultation. The following is a brief look into what an initial San Diego divorce consultation should look like. We hope this helps you feel more prepared and calm while you're going through the process.

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10 Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship

Believe it or not, it can be very difficult to determine whether a relationship is abusive, especially if you’re in it. It’s important to remember that abuse comes in many forms. It doesn’t have to be physically abusive for it to be an abusive relationship. Often physical abuse is preceded by more “subtle” forms of emotional and/or psychological abuse. These types of abuse can be just as scarring as physical abuse, and they’re usually more difficult to identify. Here are 10 signs of an emotionally abusive relationship.

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Establishing Paternity in California

Paternity is the legal state of being a father to a child. This can be established by both legal or biological standards, and either by the parents or by the court. The rights and responsibilities of a father to his child are designated by legal paternity, making it important for both the father and the mother to establish legal paternity. This can provide major benefits for your child and their quality of life.

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What You Need to Know about Legal Separation

Many couples consider a marital separation when they are thinking about divorce but aren’t quite sure they are ready to make that big, final decision. Sometimes living apart from one another helps a couple figure out if they want to make the split permanent or not. Similar to a divorce, a legal separation is a type of case that legally changes the structure of your marriage. We are sharing the ins and outs of what you need to know about legal separation in San Diego, California.

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7 Tips to Prepare for Divorce in the New Year

The weeks leading up to the new year can be stressful with the holidays, shopping, hosting parties, and entertaining family. Naturally, people hope for the new year to bring a fresh start and they make resolutions relating to health, financial goals, and relationships to make sure it starts off accordingly. We find that the new year also brings an influx of divorce filings. If your marriage has been on the rocks for a while and you’re ready to move forward and file for divorce, read our top tips to prepare for a divorce in the new year.

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The Three Different Legal Ways to End a Marriage

The decision to end a marriage is tremendously difficult. However, not all marriages must end in a divorce. Just as there are different approaches and strategies involved in working through a divorce, there are several different ways to legally end a marriage. Contrary to popular belief, divorce is not the only way to legally end it. One of the most important questions to ask a San Diego divorce attorney at the outset is what path is best for you. There are specific requirements that must be met for each. Let’s take a look.

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What Happens to Property After Divorce?

You and your partner have finally settled on a divorce. The papers are filed, and the calm seems to be on the horizon. Dividing your property appropriately is one of the next steps you need to address in this process of separation. The courts play an active role in the division of your property, and there are many elements factored into doing so appropriately. Here’s what you need to know about what happens to your property after a divorce.

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James Vercollone
How to Strengthen a Marriage and Avoid Divorce

Divorce can be a long and unruly process that can lead to feelings of loneliness, and that no one seems to quite understand what you are going through. It often begins with separation, discussion of separation or a divorce, unhappiness on one or both sides of the marriage, or even a sudden decision by one or both spouses to get a divorce. While every marriage is unique, and every divorce case is individualized, there are some common proactive steps that can be taken to help strengthen your marriage and potentially avoid divorce.

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